the holidays
As I sit here at a Native American museum surrounded by Native American staff, I began to reflect on what our "holiday" season really is. For a lot of people it conjures of feelings of guilt that require time to be spent with family. Others see it as a time to spend with family and celebrate around food. All of our holidays here in the United States seem to revolve around food (a point that I do not usually argue). It seems like the emphasis around the holiday season can be kind or oppressive to those that don't wish to spend time with family.
I find myself making a number of observations and critiques of the culture that participates and has manufactured our "holiday" season. As we can all agree, the period of time from Halloween through New Years seems to be one driven by consumption and economic growth. This point in and of itself puts a lot of pressure on people. The guilt of not buying gifts for "Christmas" or not having the elaborate Thanksgiving, not having a Halloween costume, or not going to a New Years celebration. All these things are driven by consumption of either consumer goods such as gifts and costumes, but also in the vast amounts of food that we consume. As our lives become busier we also move away from those whole food ingredients to many prepared items that again appeals to those groups looking for us to help their economic bottom line. Is this holiday season one that our culture has really created (meaning that it would be subject to cultural evolution over time and changes within generations) or is it a manifestation of our consumer driven culture in that the hype and support of the holiday season comes from the producers of our country and therefore drives us to participate.
Another point that really came to mind is that of family. The Western culture that we have established puts a lot of emphasis on family and even more emphasis on the nuclear family. With this being the case the holiday season forces people to connect, at least talk to, their family and participate in the celebration that is the "holiday" season. My thought is that with the foundation of our society being so deeply rooted in tradition and patriarchal capitalism, is this just another way for our culture to force us to participate in the structure that is? The guilt factor that plays into the holiday season seems to be the driving force behind what makes many people participate. It seems as if there is not always a desire to spend so much time with family, or participate at all, but the "tradition" of participation and the guilt behind it drive us to participate regardless of desire to do so.
It is an interesting concept, holidays, that will forever be a point of contention for myself and an area for reflection for years to come.







